The Change Up

As you all can see I changed the blog header in honor of Maxwell's birthday coming up. I also changed the name of our blog back to "Meet the Browns" from "A Brown Bag Special." Jeff thought the cheese factor was to high and to tell you the truth I was sick of hearing him whine about it. Also here is a picture of Max I took today that I just couldn't help but post. Max found my gel relaxation mask and was obsessed with wearing it. Really Jeff and I may need the relaxation mask more than Max does. Jeff went into work late after we spent an hour looking for Jeff's car keys that also have all of his work keys on the ring. Strange enough "Steve" is also missing, coincidence I think not! Jeff and I looked EVERYWHERE! In the dog food bin, the trash, every cabinet and in the toilet with no sign of either. Hopefully they show up soon. Jeff needs his keys but luckily we have an extra "Steve". Wish us luck on the search.

Until next time.

Today Max and I had to say a very sad "until next time" to two women who have become like family to us. You have heard me talk several times about Jamie and Amy, Max's therapists. Amy did Max's initial evaluation when he started Sooner Start and Jamie has been Max's physical therapist since the beginning, with only a short hiatus when she had her little girl. They have become good friends that have helped me understand the journey that my family is on. I don't think that I will really notice until they are not here next Friday. I am amazed how much Max has grown with their help. When Max started Sooner Start about 2 years ago, he was barely able to sit up and having just turned a year old when this all began wasn't even making simple sounds. Now he is using sign language, toddling and saying some words. Look at us now, starting school in a week and moving on to the next chapter. Thank you ladies for coming into my home and opening your hearts to my sweet little boy. He is one of many children that you help everyday, but you made us feel like we were all that mattered every week. And not only did you help with therapy but you helped me grow. You listened to my fears and at times unrealistic concerns. You made me feel safe asking for help and feeling scared or uncertain about Maxwell's future. So, as many people say this is not goodbye this is until next time.

Jamie, Maxwell & Amy

South Padre 2011

The Browns first family vacation is officially on the record books! My dad had this great idea that he wanted to take all of my siblings and our kids on a vacation. Sadly, last minute my nephew Eric wasn't able to make it because he got a new job through his school and now that he is 20, he has to think about bigger things. We all went to South Padre Texas and most of us had never been before. We were in a condo right on the beach and it was great. The mornings were spent on the beach, the afternoons napping and lounging and most nights were spent on the beach then afterwards laughing around the kitchen table. It was really great being all together like that. Some of you already know that I am a late in life surprise to my parents and, therefore, there is a pretty big age gap between me and my siblings. Jennifer is first and she is 12 years older than me, next is Jeff, who is 10 years older, then the first surprise (birth control baby) Jake who is only 15 months older than me and I was the last surprise (vasectomy baby)! Needless to say we had not all lived in the same house for quite some time and it was an adjustment to some of us. In true Richardson fashion there was a certain amount of drama that had to be met. On the first day, when my brother Jeff was pulling into the condo, he got rear ended by an 18 year old girl in a Benz. After that, we kept getting calls from people saying that there were crazy fires here at home. My dad's house had some damage but nothing too bad, especially since three of his neighbors across the street lost their entire houses. Then came the sting rays. On the first day my brother Jake and my brother in law Brian both got stung by a sting ray while body surfing on the sand bar. Lastly, it wouldn't be a trip if Max didn't get hurt. We were in a 3 story condo and knowing this Jeff and I brought baby gates. Unfortunately, when going upstairs someone didn't put the baby gate back and I found Max climbing the stairs. I was across the room and he lost his balance and fell down about four steps. I felt horrible because I was just watching him fall as I was running toward him. He fell right on his face and screaming ensued and then came the cuddling. Of course there were great memories made and a great first vacation for Jeff, Max and I. Now for pictures so you can have a visual. Ignore the goose egg on Maxwell's forehead at one point. It's not really obvious but it's there.

The drive was around 12 hours and Max did really well. There was a long stretch of 60 miles with nothing and we let Max get out of his seat for about 5 minutes. I know what your thinking but he is fine and made the end of a very long ride a little better.

 Headed to the beach the night we got to Padre. This is Jeff and Maxwell's preferred mode of transportation.

At South Padre Island Brewing Company

 The next night at The Big Donkey for dinner.

We took a dolphin cruise that was well... eh. Max was a grump because he was tired and there were just no dolphin to be seen. But not for lack of trying. This is Gorgi and he was on the look out for us.

 This is as close as we got and one of only two sets of dolphin we saw. We were on the second wave because we had to split up and apparently the dolphin where spry and ready to go with the other boats, dang it!

 Max wasn't feeling the photo op.

 Uncle Jake offered to take a grumpy Max and he fell asleep in about 60 seconds.

These are all pictures from the only day I took my camera to the beach. It was our first morning out and we learned less is more on subsequent trips.

Shave and a hair cut, 2 bits!

Maxwell is the only child I know that turns 3 in two weeks that has never had a hair cut. Well not completely true, we know girls who have not had a cut and of course Kate Hudson and Celine Dion had their boys looking like homeless children for a while. But Max has never had a cut and didn't even need one now except that he had a rats nest on the back of his head from sleeping and some of the hair on top was getting so long that it would hang past his hair line at times. He looks basically the same and I wish it wasn't so short on top and I wish I would have told her no when she asked if I wanted the razor around his ears. But what's done is done and I have to admit that he does look older. And at this point I better get used to it since at this rate it might take another 3 years to grow back! Also he did really great. Unfortunately I couldn't get a good picture of him smiling because there was a kid in there that was screaming his head off and Max was completely enthralled by it. But it is one thing marked off my to do list before we leave for vacation and Max's starts school.

This is before the hair cut. We went to a place that is just for kids called Snip Its, they have suckers, prizes and a tv at each station so they don't get bored.

And we're off!

No turning back now!

The finished product!

At the end you put in your hair in the machine and get a prize! He looks pretty Handsome!

Oklahoma Aquarium

Yesterday after therapy Max and I hit the dusty trail and went to see an old friend of mine Sarah that now lives in the Tulsa area. Part of the special trip was so we could go to this really cool aquarium. You could touch sting rays, star fish and reef. Also we walked through the tunnel where sharks swam all around us. It was crazy to see them go over you. And for those of you aware of my unrealistic anxiety when driving on the highway... yes, I drove Max and I there and back! With no problems might I add.

 This is one of the bull sharks that swam over us while we were in the tunnel... Creepy!

I was a little weirded out by getting to touch a sting ray and in fact we didn't. I don't touch fish or anything like that. At least not willingly, ewww.

That poor little green guy in the front was the victim of Maxwell's hand. This is me pulling his hand away.

Bouncin' Craze

Life is definitely busy and we have quite a bit on our plate right now. Max starts school in a few weeks and it is making me a nervous wreck! Also we are going on a big family vacation to South Padre courtesy of my awesome dad. Also the weekend that we get back is Maxwell's little get together for his birthday. Whoa, I keep thinking of more things to do even now!!! Any way back to the reason I'm posting. Max and his little friends all got together. We ventured to a new place (new to us) called Bouncin Craze. Max LOVED it and he had a blast! I had to go inside one of the bounce houses to find Max. So much fun and I cant wait to go back.

The first bounce he went to was really fun. Max didn't actually bounce in it but it had little air cannons that shot a ball into a hoop. However, he just kept putting his face in the air cannon.

 This was Maxwell's favorite actual bounce that he climbed on. This is also the bounce that I had to go in and search for Maxwell when he was hiding. I found him literally "hanging" out. And thanks to Ben for being tall enough to get a picture you get to see it too.

This was the coolest see-saw that is also a helicopter. Max and his friend Nicholas were so preoccupied with the wheel and buttons that this is as good as it got!

Lastly right before we left there was a hurricane tunnel and Max and I took a ride! This was a really cute video of Max and I apologize now for the PG-13 rating but seriously it got up to 80mph! I love that he is keeps trying to eat the wind too. Who am I kidding I just love this kid!

Staying Cool!

Oklahoma has had record breaking heat this summer. Every day temps are over 100 and some days reaching over 110. We are trying to stay inside because it is just to hot out. We did try t venture out to a little pool out in the yard. Spent about 30 minutes outside blowing bubbles and playing with water balloons. It was fun but could only last so long. It's only the beginning of July and I'm pretty sure that the worst is still to come.

By the way, yes, that is soap and shampoo in case any of you are wondering. It's trashy yes, but just think how resourceful it is too! Wash off the sunscreen all in one. Don't judge!

Even taking a little drink to cool off.

Tubes

Part of the reason I have been on a blog hiatus is not only because I have been sleep deprived and have not really had free time to do it, but also Max had tubes put in on the 30th of June. We met the doctor on Monday and surgery was scheduled for Thursday. I'm hoping that it will bring an end to the never ending ear infections. Our follow up is at the end of this week and so far so good. Yes it is technically surgery but he was in and out in5-10 minutes. Also unlike last time Max had anesthesia he didn't have a reaction. I looked the other day from all of Maxwell's hospital bracelets that he has gotten since he was born. Including his stay in the NICU Max has been in the hospital 9 times, CRAZY!!!

At the doctor's office Monday.

3 short days later waiting in pre-op. He started getting fussy from waiting and at the time we were in the midst of switching to the big bed. I felt bad for people in recovery because at times Max could be heard whining off and on.

After the nurse that was with him said he did great, of course! He had to drink something before we left which turned out to be simple. He drank 2 cartons of juice and headed out.

Two Steps Forward, One Step Back!

I know that I have been gone a while and some of you may be wanting to know how the bed switch went. After 10 sleepless days for everyone involved I broke down and put the crib back together. Max was not sleeping. He was taking forever to go to sleep, walking up about 3 hours early and not napping. Makes for a VERY grumpy Max. The time just was not right and we decided to bring back the crib. After I got the rail back on and put Max in bed it took all of 3 minutes for Max to fall asleep. Jeff had to wake him up the next morning at 10 and then he still took a 3 hour nap that I had to wake him up from. He wasn't getting enough sleep and some people may not agree but this is what is working for us. I'm not sure if he just wasn't ready or maybe has something to do with his special needs but at least we are back to normal and everyone including Jeff and I are in better moods.


Here is a picture that Jeff sent me when Max fell asleep at the table during lunch. So tired but still would not nap when Jeff tried to lay him down, ugh!

OMG!

Some of you may remember the torture of us moving the crib across the room about a year ago and the sleepless night that followed. That night was nothing compared to last night. Max spent his first official night in a big boy toddler bed last night. He was very excited after I took the crib railing off. Climbed in and pretended to sleep. Then came actual bed time... OMG! I expected to have to put him in bed over and over, however, I did not expect the crying and hysterics that came with it. After an hour and a half of crying and testing boundaries Max finally fell asleep. I'm not going to lie the first few times I giggled when he came down the hall or when he would open and immediately close the door if he saw Jeff or I. But that got really old really fast. This morning while putting on my make-up I hear Max crying and crawling down the hall. I laid him back down and left for work. Apparently Jeff wakes up 30 minutes later to Max standing by the bed poking him in the leg. I got an email at lunch from Jeff saying Max only got up once before he fell asleep. Wait tough not even 30 minutes later he is up. It is going to be a long couple of weeks!!!

Max thinking, "This bed thing is pretty cool Mom."

Night Night I love you -Max

Wait, you aren't staying with me!- Max (the crying begins)

And finally sleep!



This is a really bad video but it is more about what you hear. I cracked the door trying to get video but Max likes his room dark and the black out shade made it to dark inside his room.